What?
Why is it that when you know someone new, you're full nice with them and all, but then afterwards, all the respect and gratitude just seems to go away?
Friends of more than 10 years just don't even end up asking how each are anymore. They're don't even know what goes on in each other's lives and they usually change so much that it surprises you when you meet them again. I guess everyone has their own life and privacy, but that's not the point, it's not about privacy, it's about staying in touch.. not staying in touch meaning not talking to someone for a number of months and then talk again..
But anyways.. personal opinions, personal views yeh? So I guess nothing I say has any impact on some people what so ever..
Anyways, I just really hate voids.. especially voids that make things seem so unfair because it affected you in such a big way but then there's no explanation.. I'm sure it's happened to other people before, it's like when a friend just TOTALLY goes cold on you and there's basically no explanation =\ What is up with these people's arses? Did they ever consider you as a real friend? hmm
I really do miss some old "friends".. I wonder if they feel the same or maybe they're too busy with their own lives~
I think I need more friends...
Anyways.. Humans.. what are we?
Why is it that when you know someone new, you're full nice with them and all, but then afterwards, all the respect and gratitude just seems to go away?
Friends of more than 10 years just don't even end up asking how each are anymore. They're don't even know what goes on in each other's lives and they usually change so much that it surprises you when you meet them again. I guess everyone has their own life and privacy, but that's not the point, it's not about privacy, it's about staying in touch.. not staying in touch meaning not talking to someone for a number of months and then talk again..
But anyways.. personal opinions, personal views yeh? So I guess nothing I say has any impact on some people what so ever..
Anyways, I just really hate voids.. especially voids that make things seem so unfair because it affected you in such a big way but then there's no explanation.. I'm sure it's happened to other people before, it's like when a friend just TOTALLY goes cold on you and there's basically no explanation =\ What is up with these people's arses? Did they ever consider you as a real friend? hmm
I really do miss some old "friends".. I wonder if they feel the same or maybe they're too busy with their own lives~
I think I need more friends...
Anyways.. Humans.. what are we?
posted by wahoo at 12:53 AM
1 Comments:
i recon if you have tried to keep in contact with your friends and they were the one who declined your invitation to chat and keep in touch, then you basically have to let them be.
if they ever say anything or complain that you never try to keep in touch then it's their wrong and they're just lying. one day, the truth will come out.
so if you have tried hard enough to say, call them, sms them, write them proper emails, or even turning up at their front door step, and they still decide not to keep in touch, then i guess there is nothing else to do but to continue living and just move on.
on the other hand, if we really think about it, they may just be seriously THAT busy with life and the things they do because there are people who i know of who seriously go to work, then uni then home to do assignments and by the time they finish their work it's like really late at night and they have work again the next day. so it's not like they chose not to keep in contact with YOU in particular but it's the fact that they havent kept in touch with ANYONE.
however, we still should keep in mind that if someone wanted you to know something, they will contact you and let you know. if they just didnt want you to know or just didnt tell you, then i guess there is no point in forcing them to fill you in or dropping hints at them on how they are so called 'neglecting' you.
what's the point in worrying about whether you know things about people's lives when obviously there are people out there who you would have not filled them in with everything that happened in your life.
i believe that good friends are those who will not make you feel uncomfortable even though you two have not contacted each other for a long time. the friendship lasts without the contraint of time and so you can always call them up and talk to them without ever feeling awkward or as if each other are strangers. these friendships will last forever but those people who are calculative or are affected by the times unspent with each other are only affected by the time factor because the whole friendship was based on conditions. unconditional friendships will be able to withstand the limits of time so even if you don't talk to that person for months, you can still just pick up from where you left off without feeling strange or awkward.
so dont worry about not being in contact with some people~ if one day they turn around and look for you to confide in you, you will show them through your behaviour and respect for them, that you will always be an eternal, true friend.
=)
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